kink check list

This checklist can be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.  Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and Sub interests may be very different.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:


Experience

Have you had real time experience with the activity?

Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your gender.

Willingness

Are you willing/open to try an activity?
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see rating scale below).
If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to every item, you should probably find another interest to pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*

If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with a "?".

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners

Rating Scale

0 Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)
1 Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object it if was asked of you
2 Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you
3 Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis
4 You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis
5 Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible


Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to know in the comments section.

There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity



Activity
Respond
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Abrasion
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Age Play
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Anal Sex
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Anal Plugs (small)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Anal Plugs (large)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Anal Plug (public under clothes)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Animal Roles
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Aromas
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Asphyxiation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Auctioned for charity
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Ball Stretching
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Bathroom use control
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Beastiality
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Beating (soft)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Beating (hard)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Blindfolding
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Being Serviced (sexual)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Being bitten
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Breast/chest bondage
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Breath control
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Branding
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Boot Worship
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Bondage (light)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Bondage (heavy)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Bondage (multi-day)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Bondage (public under clothing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Breast whipping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Brown showers (scat)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cages (locked inside)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Caning
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Castration fantasy
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Catheterization
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Chains
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Chamber pot use
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Chastity belts
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Chauffeuring
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Choking
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Chores (domestic service)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Clothespins
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cock rings/straps
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cock worship
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Collars (worn in private)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Collars (worn in public)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Competitions (with other subs)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Corsets (wearing casually)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cuffs (leather)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cuffs (metal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Cutting
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Diapers (wearing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Diapers (wetting)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Diapers (soiling)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Dilation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Dildos
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Double Penetration
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Electricity
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Enemas (for cleansing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Enemas ( retention/punishment)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Enforced chastity
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Erotic Dance (for audience)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Examinations (physical)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Exercise (forced/required)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Exhibitionism (friends)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Exhibitionism (strangers)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Eye contact restrictions
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Face Slapping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fantasy Abandonment
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fantasy rape
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fantasy gang rape
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fear (being scared)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fisting (anal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Fisting (vaginal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Flame play
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Following orders
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Foot worship
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced bedwetting
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

forced dressing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced eating
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced homosexuality
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced heterosexuality
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced masturbation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced nudity (private)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced nudity (around others)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced Servitude
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Forced smoking
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Full head hoods
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gags (cloth)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gags (inflatable)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gags (phallic)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gags (rubber)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gags (tape)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gas masks
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gates of Hell (male)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Genital sex
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Given away to another Dom (temp)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Given away to another Dom (perm)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Golden Showers
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Gun play
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hair brush spankings
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hair pulling
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hand Jobs (giving)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hand Jobs (receiving)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Harems (serving w/other subs)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Harnessing (leather)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Harnessing (rope)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Having food chosen for you
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Having clothing chosen for you
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

(head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Head (rcv fellation/cunnilingus)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

High Heel Wearing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

High Heel Worship
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hoods
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hot oils (on genitals)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hot waxing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Housework (doing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Human puppy dog
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Humiliation (private)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Humiliation (public)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Hypnotism
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Ice cubes
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Immobilization
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Infantilism
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Initiation rites
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Injections
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Interrogations
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Kidnapping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Kneeling
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Knife play
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Leather Clothing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Leather restraints
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Lectures for misbehavior
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Licking (non-sexual)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Lingerie (wearing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Manacles and Irons
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Manicures (giving)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Massage (giving)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Massage (receiving)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Medical scenes
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Modeling for erotic photos
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Mouth bits
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Mummification
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Name change (for scene)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Nipple clamps
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Nipple rings (piercing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Nipple weights
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Oral/anal play (rimming)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Over the knee spanking
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Orgasm denial
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Orgasm control
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Outdoor scenes
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Pain (severe)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Pain (mild)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Persona training (in scene)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Personal modification (rl)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Phone sex (serving Dom)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Phone sex (commercial provider)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Piercing (permanent)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Plastic surgery
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Prison scenes
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Prostitution (public pretense)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Prostitution (actual)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Pony slave
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Public exposure
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Punishment scene
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Pussy/cock whipping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Pussy worship
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Riding crops
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Riding the "horse" (crotch tort)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Rituals
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Religious scenes
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Restrictive rules on behavior
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Rubber/latex clothing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Rope body harness
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Saran wrap
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Scarification
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Scratching - getting
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Scratching - giving
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Sensory deprivation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as art
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as ashtray
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as furniture
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as a maid
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as a toilet (urine)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as a toilet (feces)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving as waitress/waiter
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving orally (sexual)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving other Doms (supervised)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Serving other Doms (unsupervised)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Sexual deprivation (short term)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Sexual deprivation (long term)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Shaving (body hair)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Having (head hair)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Skinny dipping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Sleep deprivation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Sleep sacks
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Slutty clothing (private)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Slutty clothing (public)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Spandex clothing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Spanking
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Speech restrictions (when/what)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Speculums (anal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Speculums (vaginal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Spitting
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Spreader bars
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both} Comments{ }

Standing in corner
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Stocks
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Straight jackets
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Strapping (full body beating)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Suspension (upright)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Suspension (inverted)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Supplying new partners for Domme
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Swallowing feces
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Swallowing semen
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Swallowing urine
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Swapping (with one other couple)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Swinging (multiple couples)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Tampon training (in ass)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Tattooing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Teasing
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

TENS unit (electrical toy)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Thumb cuffs (metal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Tickling
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Triple Penetration
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Urethral Sounds (metal rods)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Uniforms
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Including others
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Vaginal dildo
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Verbal humiliation
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Vibrator on genitals
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Violet wand (electrical toy)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Voyeurism (watching others)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Video (watching others)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Video (recordings of you)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Water torture
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Waxing (hair removal)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Wearing symbolic jewelry
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Weight gain (forced)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Weight loss (forced)
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Whipping
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Wooden paddles
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }

Wrestling
Experience{YES/NO}
Willingness{1-5}
RL or Chat {RL/Chat/Both}
Comments{ }